Choosing The Date and Sending Out the Invitations
After checking with the mom to be, and deciding on the best date, it’s time to send out the invitations. (Note: Most showers are held around the 7th-month pregnancy mark, because morning sickness has ended, and the guest of honor usually has a handle on what she will need by now). For a casual event, invites can be done online. However for a slightly more formal gathering, handmade or purchased invitations—sent by snail mail—work best. Always allow a 3 week time period from the invitation arrival to the date of the event. Remember: your guests have planning to do, too. Be sure to encourage people to RSVP, because there’s nothing quite like planning a party for 12 guests that ends up being thirty. Or vice versa.The Venue and Decorations
The venue may be a cafe or your living room. In nice weather - a patio, a backyard, or even a park can be just as lovely. If you are at a cafe, the room is already pre-decorated. However, you can always add fresh flowers, colorful shower umbrellas, and even pink or blue balloons. Party decorations are available in stores and online and don’t have to be expensive. Let your imagination run free — decorations can be simple, elegant, or just fun. At your home (inside or outside) or in a park, fresh flowers, balloons, and a simple store-bought pink or blue party decor are perfect. If you have a theme, go with that, or you can stick with a basic pink or blue color scheme. The table, whether for a buffet, appetizers, or a sit-down meal can be adorned for a formal gathering with fine linens, china, and crystal stemware, or for a more casual party: colorful paper party plates and festive paper napkins are just as perfect. The choice is completely yours.